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It is so much more difficult to live with one's body than with one's soul. One's body is so much more exacting: what it won't have it won't have, and nothing can make bitter into sweet.
-- D. H. Lawrence

Wednesday, June 2, 1999
One year ago: Dead Space
Two years ago: The Pleasantness of an Employment

I think I have a cold, darn it! I felt that little tickle in my throat yesterday, and I'm really feeling it today.

A friend of mine asked me to send him the personal ads that I used to have posted on yahoo and other places. I'd talked about having some success there, and how the act of composing an ad is helpful for clarifying one's thinking, so he was curious to see what I'd actually said. I don't know if studying what worked for me will be useful for him, but I guess it couldn't hurt. Here are parts of the ads I posted in various places.

"About me: I am a good friend, considerate and trustworthy. When I get interested in a topic, I really get interested for a while, and study up and learn all I can; then that interest fades back a little. This isn't the best for career development! At least at my job there is variety as I move from project to project. I am (or was?) quiet and shy when in a new environment. This seems less so nowadays, maybe because my subconcious mind considers all of Seattle to be my familiar territory. Who doesn't think they have a good sense of humor? but I think I do."

"The right guy for me will be intelligent, reflective, energetic, humorous, perhaps witty or sardonic. He might be an FA or size-accepting (since I am fat and busty). I'm a fun, affectionate intellectual, with interests ranging from opera to HTML. I love swing dancing and science fiction. We'll start by dating, with more to follow if things work out."

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As the festival continues, I'm getting lazy about walking to the theaters. If there's a bus coming along, I'll take it!

I'd half-planned to go down to the Harvard Exit for a third movie, but I'm getting too tired and I wanted to get caught up here, so I walked home instead.

 

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